The time it takes for men and women to climax is different, between 3 to 5 minutes. With these sex positions, you can cut that down.
I know you’ve read a bunch of these articles on what positions can get you there quickly and with less of fuss. They’re not all bullshit, the truth is that scientifically, there is about 4 to 5 minutes difference between the time it takes each gender to reach orgasm. It sure takes a man quicker time than the woman to achieve climax.
If it takes an average man 9 minutes to reach orgasm and an average woman 13 minutes, then the man has to figure out how to delay his climax so it can at least allow his lady to reach hers first then he climaxed. Wont that be a perfect gentleman thing to do? Absolutely, that we cannot be all certain that it can happen all the time. In celebration of the International Women's Day.
We have compiled a list of positions with the help of Jennifer Benjamin, Cosmopolitan, that are best for quick orgasm for women, try them out and if it helps you in anyway, let us know.
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1. Missionary Style 2.0
It looks like the age-old missionary position but there are slight modifications to it. "While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half," says sex educator Dorian Solot, coauthor of I (Heart) Female Orgasm.. This will help your guy thrust better, and the penetration will be deeper, which is a good thing for both of you.
The G-spot is also very stimulated her, this is a win-win for both of you. "He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris," says sex therapist Gloria Brame, PhD. "Then he rocks against the area until you peak."
"The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone," adds Brame.
2. Doggy Style 2.0
You know what doggy style is, but for it to be optimal, a small modification will be made that is guaranteed to make you feel even better. Looking at the picture, I’m sure you’ve done something like that before. "Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you," suggests Solot.
"Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you." In this position, the penis can rub against the clitoris as he thrusts into you.
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3. Reverse Cowgirl 2.0
As seen on the picture above, it is quite similar to the reverse cowgirl but the leg placements are somehow different, and that’s enough to make the difference. Girl on top or any variation of it is a sure way of achieving orgasm. "It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris," says Berman. "You can touch your C-spot, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm."
This position also allows you to spin if you’re into that sort of thing. Funny! "Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs," suggests Brame.
4. Table Top Missionary
It happens on the table top, with your back to the table. One of your legs on his shoulders, the other leg open while your guy is positioned in between your legs, where there is total coital alignment. "Lie down on the table with your butt near the edge," suggests Solot. "He enters you while standing between your legs, holding on to your hips for leverage." You can rest your feet on his shoulders or on the edge of the table.
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Because he's standing, his hands are free to stroke your body," says Brame. "And he's at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of you, making it easier for him to touch your clitoris, unobstructed."
5. Spooning Position
This position is prime for easy orgasm for ladies. There is a lot of emotions involved in the warm embrace of spooning especially when sex is happening, you can moan into her ears, or whisper sweet nothing to her while your organs are tugging at each other. "Aside from fulfilling your cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to your G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse," Berman points out. "Since he may not be able to penetrate you as deeply though, guide his hand around your hot spot."
Rather than just thrusting, do it more gently and feel how good that is.
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