I think he’s going to propose soon because he now talks about marriage a lot.
Hello Bukky.
I think you do a good job and you should keep it up.
I need your assistance. My boyfriend had a side-chick and I found out last year. He apologized, saying he has dropped her and that he would never do that to me again.
Considering how we have been together for two years plus, I reluctantly took him back In December, on the condition that any more mistake and I’ll be gone for good.
Since then, he has been really good, and everything has been very smooth between us. He’s now so sweet, and does all he can to make me happy.
I think he’s going to propose soon because he now talks about marriage a lot, saying stuff like “if we get married” and all.
That really scares me, as I do not know what response to give him if he asks. I have this fear that he is just being good so as to get me to marry him. What if he goes back to being a cheater after we marry?
He has not asked yet, but if he does [and I have this very strong feeling that he will soon] how do I respond? Please I need your advice.
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Hi reader,
Thanks for your kind compliment. I’ll keep doing my best.
On the matter at hand, I think everything is a matter of time. If you have known him for over two years and he only gets his act together after you caught him cheating with another woman, I think you need to take your stand and give him abundant time to prove himself deserving.
Let me commend your forgiving spirit, that’s cool. People deserve second chances and giving him that could be the best thing that happen in your relationship.
As you said, he’s good with you now after he gave up the other girl. Quite obviously, his attention had been divided all along.
However, it’s been just two months, and you need to give him more time to prove himself a changed man worthy of a commitment as serious as marriage.
So, in my opinion, a marriage proposal anytime earlier than the next four months might be too early. I think you need to watch if he can keep up being a good man for at least six months.
So, if he does not misbehave till June, he might truly have changed for good and might truly be ready to dedicate his lifetime to loving you.
Of course, nothing is certain in life or in marriage, but you would, at least, be able to say you watched well before you leapt.
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