There's actually no one-size-fits-all formula for being a wonderful husband. Every wife and every marriage is different, each with their attendant peculiarities.
There's actually no one-size-fits-all formula for being a wonderful husband. Every wife and every marriage is different, each with their attendant peculiarities.
But there are some common issues that many married couples face, some of these issues could come as a result of the husbands recklessness or the wife's negligence.
Essentially this article focuses on what some Nigerian men do, probably with no outright intention to rile and anger their wives, these acts might not be a deliberate out and out approach to cause heartache and pain for their wives.
But when you do these things, your woman will/may be silent and not complain, but deep down within her soul you're causing her a lot of pain. Your wife may not be nagging just because she loves you, but you really have to improve on these points.
1. Some men find it awkward to apologize to their wives even when they are the offending party, she's not thrilled by this irritable attitude.
2. Your wife is actually not cool with the fact that you can't do a little cleaning. With all the household chores she has to do, for you to ever suggest she should wash your car irks her so much. (I once saw a man ask his wife to do this and I was enraged)
3. If you can't pack the plates to the kitchen after eating on the dining table (when you're the only one at home) your wife is actually not happy with this act.
4. You always keep your wife boiling with anger if you can't muster enough strength to press/push the toilet flush lever when you're done with number 1 or number 2.
5. Try and keep all your stuff together, you stress her too much if she has to search every nook and cranny of the house to gather your wears, shoes, underwear, socks and other stuff whenever she wants to do the laundry or clean up the house.
6. She might not be cool with you asking her to move out of your room against her wish when she's nursing your new born baby. (some women don't mind though)
7. They don't appreciate the fact that you really don't think and care about your parents in-law (and her siblings too).
8. Your wife will actually clean your mess up and take care of you if you throw up from having a little too much of the green bottle.... You smell bad, the whole place stinks. She will clean it up but you are overworking her.
9. She's not happy if you're the type that finds it pretty hard to spare a few moment to play with your baby while she makes your food.
10. If she must make a long speech and ask severally for money to buy food and household items (especially when you have the money) she's not impressed.
11. She said "honey please drive me to the market" while you're home doing nothing really. But you declined and expect her to be all smiles. No she's pissed.
12. Don't criticize or correct her in the presence of your friends, her friends or her children. She will take offense instead of corrections.
13. Don't force sex on her whenever she's visibly tired. If it doesn't come from her heart, don't do it. You may not incur her wrath but you're making her not looking forward to making love to you.
14. How on earth will you explain it away that you forgot her birthday. She won't forgive you. Never forget.
I can go on and on but let me stop here, you don't need all the money in the world to make your wife happy, always tell her you love her, cherish her, apologize when you're wrong, share great moments with her, share jokes and hearty laughter together, take her shopping. Women are thrilled by this "little" things.
Show love to her this season and always.
Olufemi Olofinmuagun
olofin97@gmail.com
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